Strong Deep Rugged

Some men know when to listen, and your body has something to say.

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  • Every session begins with a brief check-in — how you're feeling in your body, what you're carrying in. From there we move directly into the work.

    The 60-minute session is built around deep tissue bodywork, controlled hands-on pressure, and full body tension release. It settles into a strong intuitive flow — a steady rhythm of pressure and release where tight muscles gradually melt under strong hands and the body can fully let go.

    Expect firm hands, grounded presence, and confident masculine energy.

  • The 90-minute session opens with a real conversation — where your body is, where your energy is, and what you're hoping to find in the work. That alignment isn't small talk. It's the foundation of everything that follows.

    From there we move into an expanded range of modalities: assisted stretch therapy, deep tissue bodywork, mobility and flexibility work, neural affective touch mapping, myofascial release, and pelvic floor work. These layers deepen the overall potential of erotic sensation and open the door to heightened erogenous experience — the kind of embodied discovery that's hard to access when the body is still guarded.

    The same firm hands and grounded presence are here. So is generous aftercare following wherever the session takes you.

  • Some of the most meaningful work happens over time.

    Multiple sessions are generally 90 to 120 minutes and require a minimum of three consecutive meetings. They're designed for men who are ready to move toward something specific — whether that's resolving trauma held in the body, working through shame or erectile anxiety, reclaiming intimacy that's gone quiet, or building new relational dynamics with a partner, a playmate, or anyone you share your body with.

    The queer community holds an enormous range of dynamics, identities, and relationship structures. Multiple session work is built to honor that. Sessions can be structured for individuals, for partners together, or for partners seen separately — whatever serves the goal. The modalities, the pacing, and the shape of the work are all determined collaboratively in an initial intake conversation.

    For men primarily interested in guided self-pleasure education and solo practice, multiple 60-minute sessions can be a focused and rewarding path.

    There's no assumed structure here and no implied expectation. Every commitment to this format is its own thing — tailored, consensual, and built around what you actually came for.

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A lot of men arrive carrying more than tension. They're carrying guardedness. The pressure to stay "on.” A complicated relationship with their own body — shaped by stress, shame, and whatever intimacy has asked of them over the years.

That's where most of this work begins.

I think about how much we've lost. A whole generation of mentors, ones who might have shown us what deep bonds between men could look like. That loss didn't just leave grief. It left a gap. And somewhere in that gap, a lot of us learned to perform instead of connect. To endure what we didn't want in hopes of getting a small piece of what we actually needed. To shape ourselves around roles that prove desirable, without question.

That's not a personal failing. That's a wound. And it lives in the body.

My practice is Somatic Sexological Bodywork — a neural affective approach to touch that works with the body's conditioned patterns, not just its surface. Sessions are unhurried, collaborative, and built on genuine connection. The goal isn't performance. It's reclamation.

My background is a little unconventional, and I think that's what makes this work land the way it does. I spent years as a conditioning and stretch mobility coach for elite circus artists, blending sports medicine, deep tissue, and Thai massage into something restorative and generative at the same time. I worked across a wildly diverse range of bodies and abilities — gaining experience in how different bodies hold and release expressive energy. No single modality could have given me that opportunity, it’s truly integration that established my success.

That foundation led me to neural biology, and neural affective touch led me to sexology. The through-line has always been the same belief: the body holds a conditioned relationship to how we move through the world. Somatic Sexological Bodywork creates the conditions to examine that — and, if you're ready, to remap it.

I work exclusively with men. That's intentional. We carry a specific set of experiences when it comes to body, identity, and intimacy — and that work deserves someone who understands and takes it seriously. I want to be part of rebuilding something. The kind of touch that's both skilled and present. The kind of bond that doesn't ask you to perform.

I'm currently completing intimacy educator certification under Caffyn Jesse, with continued training at the NeuroAffective Touch Institute and currently enrolled at the Pacific Center for Somatic Sexology.

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Hell’s Kitchen, NYC

Private studio space on W. 50th St. between 9th & 10th Ave. Full amenities including shower and comfortable sitting lounge. Climate controlled and air conditioned. Located within 3-5 bocks of all subway lines. The studio is a third level walk-up.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • It is entirely natural to be nervous experiencing sexological bodywork for the first time. An initial session will will start with a general “intake” discussion. This is when we will share goals and elements of self awareness within intimacy. As well as establish a mutual understanding of your curiosity and how to safely explore it.

  • Somatic Sexology can be a varied experience for each client. Often an entirely new concept for first time inquiries. Casual conversation can be both comforting and affirming. If you’d like to schedule a video call, please message below.

  • The practice of Erotic Massage typically concludes with a manual release for most men. However, in somatic sexology the practice is more focused on exploring and mapping neural pathways that better integrate one’s relationship with erogenous sensations in the body/mind/spirit, as a whole. An exercise through guided touch to explore full body orgasm beyond performative ejaculation.

  • Somatic Sexological Bodywork is accredited and governed by the American Board of Sexology. My practice is certified in Intimacy Education, which is a legally recognized and supported practice.

  • Absolutely not. In no way is the practice a mutual experience. The session is one-way client directed with established boundaries, protocols, and consent. To be exact, this practice is established on foundational research and teachings of Dr. Betty Martin, D.C. who established the internationally recognized standard: The Wheel of Consent.

  • My bio above shares a good bit of my perspective and philosophy in the work. I hope that comes through with the compassion I hold for somatics. I’m very confident, grounded, and experienced with sharing space, vulnerability, and knowledge. I hold no expectation or set pace for how this work resonates with each individual client. I greatly respect the amount of trust that is required to share a fulfilling session, I would not compromise that in any way.

Inquiries Welcome